The RSA Mini Field Guide

Free · The RSA Mini Field Guide

There’s no support group for this. Here’s the meeting anyway.


The RSA Mini Field Guide — ten pages from the full guide, with real boundary scripts and the truths nobody warns you about — for anyone doing all the step-parenting labor with none of the authority. Free. Yours to keep.

No spam, no toxic positivity, no “you’ve got this, mama.” A few honest letters, and you can leave anytime.

What’s in the ten pages

  • The truths nobody warns you about — said plainly, without the gratitude lecture.
  • Real boundary scripts — the exact words, for the moments your brain goes blank.
  • The resentment reframe — why it’s information about the arrangement, not a character flaw.
  • The diagnostic — is it the stepkid, or is it the adult standing next to you?

After you sign up, check your email and confirm — the download link is in there, and a few honest letters follow. Nothing you write back is used for anything but a reply from me.

A reflection tool, not legal or mental-health advice.