You Have Your Shit Together
Who are you most inspired by? I am always inspired by people who have their shit together. There have been different people at different stages of my life. Currently, I am inspired by a recent acquaintance who has a satisfying home life, grown children who also seem well-adjusted, and when she speaks about her previous work experience, it is with a sense of satisfaction and achievement. I know I’m inspired because I am not envious. Instead, I see in her an opportunity to learn how to navigate this new life of mine. Part of me hopes that I will also learn through osmosis. That mere proximity will activate something in…
Calling It Quits
Since I joined the neighborhood council, my mother has called me less and less. Where before she would call me daily, she is now avoiding me like the plague. Or at least she was, until she got bored and decided it was time to try and feed off my energy. How do I know this? Because at 3am, when I was already asleep, I was awakened by my mother’s ringtone. And when I didn’t answer the first time, the ringer went off again, and again, until I set my phone to vibrate. The out-of-the-blue calls Her calls, when she is seeking control, are timed to disrupt my life. To control…
Mind Your Business
I am actively making a point to not fixate on a man. I know that is a phrase I’d never thought I would see myself writing. But considering my history, it tracks. Fixating on a man who ticks off all the “weird vibes” box is totally on brand.
Happiness Is What You Make of It
What’s a common misconception people have about happiness? A common misconception is that happiness is a monolith. It does not look one way for everyone. Even what can make many people happy will cause pain in others. Happiness is completely situational and not commonplace.
Circles and Shields – Few of My Favorite Things
What are your two favorite things to wear? I am a creature of habit. There are some things that, once I’ve defined them, become touchstones to get me through the day. Totems to either bring me luck or shield me against the world. These are a few of my favorite things.
