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    Verbal Hostage Situation

    May 20, 2026 /No Comments

    A toxic brother resurfaces with no apology, a verdict on my life, and an hour-long monologue. Verbal hostage situations, no negotiation possible.

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    Wheel of Misfortune: I’d Like to Solve the Puzzle

    May 19, 2026 /No Comments

    Spent a month in a slump with no obvious cause. Turns out my tone-deaf best friend was the puzzle. A reckoning with friendship asymmetry in midlife.

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    Music Roulette 2 ~ Nevermind the Algorithm

    April 28, 2026 /No Comments

    It’s time for another rendition of music roulette and the second uncurated playlist from my life. It’s been a hot minute since the first episode. For those of you just tuning in, there was a time when I made mix tapes. Now I make playlists. There’s a resurgence in the needs and wants to own one’s music. Whether it be in protest of streaming music, or pure nostalgia, the point stands that everyone loves music. And I enjoy the randomness of music in my life. Here we go:

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  • My So Called Life

    So Much to Say – Don’t Talk About It

    March 26, 2026 /No Comments

    I've been tired all week. Unusually so. I couldn't figure out why — until a phone call from La Llorona, a conversation with my BFF, and a Dave Matthews song I couldn't get out of my head told me everything I needed to know.

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    No Shit Sherlock Award – Emotional Damage

    March 24, 2026 /No Comments

    Scientists have finally confirmed what I've known since the early 2000s. I'd like to present the No Shit Sherlock Award for the most obvious study — and share my personal checklist of achievements unlocked.

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