The Underground Mother Road The Underground Mother Road

A Fortysomething Journal

  • Home
  • Hot Topics
    • My So Called Life
    • Midlife Musings
    • Divorced. Now what?
    • Living Single
    • The Mother Hood
    • Marital Hiss
    • Rotting Roots
    • Thoughts and Ponderings
    • Movie Musings
    • Be Practical
  • Contact the Underground
  • Start Here
    • about
    • Co-Parenting is Hard
Menu
  • Home
  • Hot Topics
    • My So Called Life
    • Midlife Musings
    • Divorced. Now what?
    • Living Single
    • The Mother Hood
    • Marital Hiss
    • Rotting Roots
    • Thoughts and Ponderings
    • Movie Musings
    • Be Practical
  • Contact the Underground
  • Start Here
    • about
    • Co-Parenting is Hard

Join the Underground

This is the part where I ask you to follow my blog 0_o. Enter your email and get updates when I post something new. Simple as that.

Spread the Word

  • Facebook
  • X
  • Instagram
  • My So Called Life

    No Shit Sherlock Award – Emotional Damage

    March 24, 2026 / No Comments

    Scientists have finally confirmed what I've known since the early 2000s. I'd like to present the No Shit Sherlock Award for the most obvious study — and share my personal checklist of achievements unlocked.

    Read Me
  • Rotting Roots

    The Algorithm Showed Me That I Am Not a Mirror, I’m a Problem

    March 22, 2026 / No Comments

    La Llorona couldn't stand her own reflection, so she made sure I couldn't stand mine. A narcissistic mother's beauty standards, decoded by the algorithm.

    Read Me
  • Movie Musings

    The Thing Explained 44 Years Later: A Colonialism Theory

    March 20, 2026 / No Comments

    The Thing (1982) isn't just a horror movie. There is a metaphor for colonialism and totalitarian ideologies — and it took me hundreds of rewatches to finally see it.

    Read Me
  • My So Called Life,  Rotting Roots

    My Own Prison

    March 17, 2026 / No Comments

    I've been held captive by the generational trauma of my mother. I wish it hadn't taken me so long to figure out just how deep in this prison I had been kept.

    Read Me
  • Rotting Roots,  My So Called Life

    Depleted Momentum • The Art of Weaponized Truth

    March 15, 2026 / No Comments

    Everytime the phone rings lately and it’s my mother on the other end, I think back to the times when she was not a phone call away but instead all in my face and in my personal space. I do not wish those days back.

    Read Me
123

LisawithnoL

I blog about the random ass shit going on in my life. I pull no punches and use salty language. Read at your own risk.

Get the updates

Want to be the first to know when I publish? Enter your email and get updates when I post something new. Simple as that.

Would you like to know more?

Travel Back in Time

Trending

These Movies Are Killing Me Inside
No Shit Sherlock Awards
Excuse Me, Mansplainer
When You Remember the Time - No Shit Sherlock Award

Tags

adult student brother strikes again Christmas college coping mechanisms coping post divorce COVID19 depression divorce douchebaggery emotional abuse expectations Guatemala holidays issues keeping it real kennels of irritation La Llorona less than perfect life lessons manipulative behavior memories of bad marriage midlife musings mom issues motherhood motivation movie musings mr horrible my mother narcissist mother pandemic pet peeves pissed off rant post-divorce quarantine2020 rant reluctant step-parents anonymous secret single behavior single mom Texas the ex trust issues women working working through the drama worklife

Trainwreck Gawkers

  • 10,172 curious onlookers
Follow on Bloglovin
lonelyblogs.com
© 2026 The Underground Mother Road
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms & Conditions
  • Disclaimer
  • Contact