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  • Your call is important to us - tales from the VA veterans virtual town hall
    Thoughts and Ponderings

    Your Call Is Important to Us – Tales from the VA Virtual Town Hall

    June 9, 2026 /No Comments

    A North Texas veteran sits through a VA virtual town hall engineered to fail. No agenda, four callers, and every real question shunted off for "personal follow up.

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  • Love a Secondhand Emotion
    Midlife Musings

    Love, a Secondhand Emotion

    June 8, 2026 /No Comments

    I don’t remember being in love. I was thinking about it the other day, thinking about when the ex and I started dating, and I don’t remember the feeling I must have had of being in this all-consuming passion for another person.

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  • Music roulette 7 - Reality Sound Bites
    Midlife Musings

    Music Roulette 7 – Reality Sound Bites

    June 7, 2026 /No Comments

    Music is a powerful, accessible memory cue. Therefore, I am setting the shuffle loose again for another round of music roulette to resurface my deep memories. This has been helping me recall personal experiences and process the emotions that are clogging my memory storage. Especially since I don’t have my journals on hand for me to scour for memory triggers. Part of a midlife renewal plan, the music based therapy part of my sabbatical. I’m going to let the music do the heavy lifting again. Here we go.

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    Insane in the Men Brain

    June 7, 2026 /No Comments

    I hate people. Which is ironic considering I volunteered myself to be in this council to try and help my neighborhood.

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    Music Roulette 6 ~ It Was All a Stream

    June 6, 2026 /No Comments

    There is a close link between music, emotion, and memory. I recently read somewhere that there is a major link called “music-evoked autobiographical memory”. Who knew my music roulette explorations had a name! And that there were so many studied done on the subject. In that vein, let’s continue digging into my mental archives via a randomly selected song list pulled from all the songs I have listened to and liked on Spotify. In the words of the defunct Navy slogan: Let the journey begin…

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Writing about the random ass shit going on in my life since 2007. I pull no punches and use salty language. Read at your own risk.

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