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    Twister 27 Years Later – Nostalgia in the Wind

    November 13, 2023 /No Comments

    Twister, 27 years later. Using the Hardings' failing marriage as a mirror for divorce, infidelity, and what the film actually says about men who ghost their wives.

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    Love is Dead – Casualty of the Divorce

    September 6, 2020 /No Comments

    I wanted the opposite of what my mother had. Instead I ended up in somewhat the same place — and I'm not trying again.

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    Divorce: When a Marriage Is Over

    July 2, 2015 /No Comments

    The Affleck/Garner divorce reminded me of mr horrible's drunk dial where he said he missed how easy he had it when we were married. No shit, Sherlock. I did everything.

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    How to Cope Through Post-Divorce Interactions With the Ex: When We Pretend That They’re Dead

    October 2, 2014 /No Comments

    mr horrible treats co-parenting like an extension of the marriage. I changed my Facebook status to Widowed because Divorced wasn't final enough. Pretending he's dead is a coping mechanism, not a lie

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    Tales of an Outsider

    September 2, 2014 /No Comments

    Nobody wants to hang out with the person going through a divorce. Feeling like an outsider at work, and the exhausting math of having nothing relatable to share.

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