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    Divorced. Now what?

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    I managed his entire life for 14 years. Of course I know his birthday...Pretending otherwise would be stupid.

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    The Algorithm Showed Me That I Am Not a Mirror, I’m a Problem

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    La Llorona couldn't stand her own reflection, so she made sure I couldn't stand mine. A narcissistic mother's beauty standards, decoded by the algorithm.

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    You Had One Job – 5 Mistakes My Brother Made After My Divorce

    March 10, 2026 /No Comments

    I drove 1400 miles to my brother's apartment after the divorce because I thought he was safe. He was not a safe space. Thirteen years later, here's the full accounting.

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    New Year, Same Me

    January 1, 2024 /No Comments

    Happy New Year - Ringing in the year with more of the same, or are we?

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    10 Years a Divorcee – In the End

    September 26, 2023 /No Comments

    It's been 10 years since I got out of the toxic marriage. Time to reflect, assess if I am better off in the end than I was when this all started.

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