The Algorithm Showed Me That I Am Not a Mirror, I’m a Problem
La Llorona couldn't stand her own reflection, so she made sure I couldn't stand mine. A narcissistic mother's beauty standards, decoded by the algorithm.
You Had One Job – 5 Mistakes My Brother Made After My Divorce
I drove 1400 miles to my brother's apartment after the divorce because I thought he was safe. He was not a safe space. Thirteen years later, here's the full accounting.
New Year, Same Me
Happy New Year - Ringing in the year with more of the same, or are we?
10 Years a Divorcee – In the End
It's been 10 years since I got out of the toxic marriage. Time to reflect, assess if I am better off in the end than I was when this all started.
Behind the Music: Post-Divorce Triggers the Pit of Despair
Behind the music: Five songs that send me into the pit of despair. I'd blocked number one out so completely I had to look it up. It's still the worst one.




