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  • Rotting Roots

    Absence Makes the Hatred Grow Stronger

    July 20, 2026 /No Comments

    On the particular exhaustion of being back in your mother's hometown, and why some daughters don't miss the phone call.

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    The Ultimate Compliment

    July 11, 2026 /No Comments

    A neighbor's offhand compliment becomes proof I escaped my mother's script entirely. On being told you're nothing like the woman who raised you.

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    Independently Minding My Own Business

    July 4, 2026 /No Comments

    A Guatemala-based expat's take on a mother's newly performative American patriotism, and the phone call that proved it.

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    My Own Private Avocado

    June 30, 2026 /No Comments

    I avoided guacamole for over a decade, convinced my mother was lying about how good it was. Then one bite at a fancy backyard party at age 12 changed everything.

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    The Body of Evidence

    June 24, 2026 /No Comments

    Neighbors in Guatemala remember my mother as "El cuerpo." A force of nature. A woman they speak about in awe. I inherited her face. I'm trying to figure out if I also inherited the thing that broke her.

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