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    Once Around Again – Named from the Ashes

    August 30, 2026 /No Comments

    Thirteen years after the naming, a look back at what mr horrible has become, and why the name outlived the man.

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    Of Course I Know It’s Your Birthday

    June 29, 2026 /No Comments

    I managed his entire life for 14 years. Of course I know his birthday...Pretending otherwise would be stupid.

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    The Ex-Files ~ Ghost in the Machine

    June 25, 2026 /No Comments

    The music survived the marriage. The person to share it with didn't.

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  • Love a Secondhand Emotion
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    Love, a Secondhand Emotion

    June 8, 2026 /No Comments

    I don’t remember being in love. I was thinking about it the other day, thinking about when the ex and I started dating, and I don’t remember the feeling I must have had of being in this all-consuming passion for another person.

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  • The Ex Files - The Jersey Devil
    Divorced. Now what?

    The Ex Files – The Jersey Devil

    June 4, 2026 /No Comments

    He texted me a song with no context. I've been divorced from him for thirteen years. Some men never stop fishing.

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