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  • Relationships Bite - Am I Doomed?
    Divorced. Now what?,  Living Single

    Relationships Bite: Am I Doomed?

    September 29, 2014 /No Comments

    What if mr horrible was my soulmate? I almost ran off the road. Then I came to my senses — but the thought that replaced it wasn't any better.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    #WhyIStayed

    September 10, 2014 /No Comments

    Everyone was shocked when I divorced. No one knew because I wore a fake face 100% of the time. I stayed until the emotional abuse stopped being only my burden to bear. Then I left.

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  • Passive aggressive
    Divorced. Now what?

    Passive Aggressive

    April 22, 2013 /No Comments

    It might have been easier to leave if he'd used his fists. Passive-aggressive abuse is harder to name, harder to prove, and harder to leave. Written April 2013, still processing.

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  • I was married to the bad boy
    Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    I Was Married to the Bad Boy

    February 23, 2013 /No Comments

    Don't buy the Hollywood lies. Bad boys are a pipe dream. I learned that lesson the hard way.

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    Marital Hiss

    Lost in the Emotional Desert

    December 26, 2012 /No Comments

    I drove him to the eye doctor and sat in the waiting room alone. On the drive home I realized I felt nothing. Not anger, not sadness. Just nothing. In the emotional desert.

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