Divorced. Now what?
Got divorced. What happens now?
The full, unvarnished account of what happens after you finally leave a bad marriage — the legal chaos, the emotional wreckage, the years of co-parenting with someone you'd rather never speak to again, and the slow, nonlinear process of putting yourself back together.-
One wish
Sometimes, I wish that I could manage a decent relationship with mr horrible, just to ease the daily tension I get from his continued and sporadic interactions with my kids… or he could just die. That would work too.
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Divorced – My Secret Identity
The funny thing about being divorced is that most people don’t ever realize that I was ever married. Those that figure out I was are even more surprised it was such a bitter and contentious divorce. Thing is, my past is not my identity. I don’t wear my pain nor do I use it as an excuse to behave like a crochety beeyotch.
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Going Out By Myself
I don’t mind going out alone. This time, I was supposed to see a free preview but that didn’t work out since I wasn’t camping out in the hot ass sun for several hours.
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You’re Such an Ass, Your Butt Dialed Me…
I am so glad I did not answer the phone that day. Nothing ruins my calm faster than talking to mr horrible, except for voice mails from mr horrible.
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Grab Your Emotional Baggage – It’s Time for a Guilt Trip!
What do you do when you are blindsided by a question that reminds you that there was a better version of you that you left behind in the past? You pack your emotional baggage and embark on a guilt trip. Let's go!