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    He who shall not be named also known as: the son who died

    January 12, 2019 /No Comments

    I won’t mention him by name. I don’t want to sully his memory by talking more about the way in which he passed. There was already enough internet drama at the time, and my grief was public enough. But I feel it is important to mention this because I will refer to him as the son who died when I write about him. He was not my biological son, but he was my son nonetheless.

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    Step-Mothers Get No Respect: Reflections on the Major Suck that is Step-Parenting

    October 1, 2014 /No Comments

    I raised him from age 10 to 18. He went to Navy boot camp. He called twice — once to get his dad's number. I expected a letter. Nothing came. Stepmothers get no respect.

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  • Labors Lost - laments on the thankless nature of raising someone elses child
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    Labors Lost: Laments on the Thankless Nature of Raising Someone Else’s Child

    September 19, 2013 /No Comments

    Reflecting on the thankless nature of raising someone else's child. Being a step-parent isn't easy. Who knew?

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    Working My Nerves

    September 14, 2013 /No Comments

    Even after the divorce the ex continues to pin the blame for random things on me. He is working my every last nerve.

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    Fuck Father’s Day

    June 14, 2013 /No Comments

    Father's Day used to mean something. But when the father of your children is a douchebag, what is there to celebrate? Not all men make good fathers.

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Writing about the random ass shit going on in my life since 2007. I pull no punches and use salty language. Read at your own risk.

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