To Be or Not to Be… Friends with the Ex

My ex is coming to visit the kids for their Spring Break. When we first talked about it I was okay and even kinda looking forward to it. But as the date creeps closer I wonder if I should be “friends” with my ex. 

I can tell that the ex-husband has not quite reconciled my role in his life at present. Anyone who spends a percentage of our conversations sexualizing them in some way has not yet figured out that we are not together “like that.”

I have my opinions on it and would like to be able to take a scorched-earth approach to that relationship, but having children together complicates everything, especially an exit strategy. I have a couple of videos that weigh in on this complex subject.