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  • Divorced. Now what?

    He Expected a Fight and Other Epiphanies

    September 30, 2013 / 1 Comment

    I came to the realization this weekend that I have outgrown the ex. I find the ex tedious, and this epiphany was as frightening as it was enlightening.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  My So Called Life

    Bracing For Impact…

    September 24, 2013 / No Comments

    I must be suffering from the effects of residual stress because my head has been pounding all day. I can only assume that it is my body reacting to what I have yet to wrap my mind around completely: that in a matter of hours my calm will be disrupted by the arrival of mr horrible. I have been too busy to really stop and take stock.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    I Should Have Known – Signs It’s Not Meant to Be

    September 22, 2013 / No Comments

    I should have known that my marriage was not going to last the first time I looked at the sleeping face of mr Horrible and I wanted to smother it with a pillow.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Living Single

    Already Brushing Off the Dust…

    September 20, 2013 / No Comments

    Sometimes I think about the time when the marriage began to disintegrate for real, and the stages of grief that followed through several months after the divorce was final. I consider the alterations it affected in me and how I have changed as a person on the inside, but also how the experience affected my perception of things, in particular: MUSIC.

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  • Labors Lost - laments on the thankless nature of raising someone elses child
    Divorced. Now what?,  The Mother Hood

    Labors Lost: Laments on the Thankless Nature of Raising Someone Else’s Child

    September 19, 2013 / No Comments

    Reflecting on the thankless nature of raising someone else's child. Being a step-parent isn't easy. Who knew?

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