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  • Divorced. Now what?,  The Mother Hood

    I’ll See Your Divorce and Raise You an Abuser

    April 22, 2013 / No Comments

    A book I read triggered some reflections on the divorce and how it all went down. And something about a game of poker...

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    A Lame Excuse By Any Other Name, Is Still Lame

    April 19, 2013 / No Comments

    When your ex forgets your birthday and somehow makes it your fault, that's not an oversight — it's passive aggression. Recognizing the manipulation is a win.

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  • Thoughts and Ponderings

    Ignorance Isn’t Bliss

    April 17, 2013 / 1 Comment

    I recently had a friend call and ask me for advice. She wanted to know how she could find evidence that her husband was cheating on her. First of all, she knew he was cheating. Her gut told her so, and it wasn’t his first time on the merry-go-round, so the signs were there. Her situation got me thinking, why is it so important to know?

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    Recompense of a Liar

    April 15, 2013 / No Comments

    Why do liars think that they are entitled to the truth? Their deceptive actions show me they can’t handle the truth! So what’s a girl to do when she has to make moves that put her in the awkward position of having to trust the bastard that got you in the mess you’re in? Why, treat him like he likes to be treated: With the best Oscar winning portrayal of “The Truthful Wife”. He deserves no better, at least I think so.

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    Divorced. Now what?,  Movie Musings

    These Movies Are Killing Me Inside…

    April 12, 2013 / No Comments

    My taste in movies seems to be going through a transition, probably because of the divorce. I hope it’s not permanent cause it’s killing me, Smalls!

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