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    Another Year, Another Bad Birthday

    April 14, 2024 / No Comments

    Another year, another bad birthday. I should expect to be disappointed, yet somehow, I am still surprised. If your birthday was a catastrophe again this year, you're in good company.

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    Quarantine This Birthday

    April 16, 2020 / No Comments

    Quarantine killed the birthday plans, which was fine by me. Turning 40-something is weird enough without a pandemic forcing you to sit with it.

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    Birthday Fail • A Historical Review of Why I Hate Birthdays

    April 30, 2019 / No Comments

    My birthday peaked at age six. Everything since has been a documented disaster. 10 reasons I stopped caring about my birthday entirely.

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    A Lame Excuse By Any Other Name, Is Still Lame

    April 19, 2013 / No Comments

    When your ex forgets your birthday and somehow makes it your fault, that's not an oversight — it's passive aggression. Recognizing the manipulation is a win.

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