The Underground Mother Road The Underground Mother Road

A Fortysomething Journal

  • Home
  • Hot Topics
    • My So Called Life
    • Midlife Musings
    • Divorced. Now what?
    • Living Single
    • The Mother Hood
    • Marital Hiss
    • Rotting Roots
    • Thoughts and Ponderings
    • Movie Musings
    • Be Practical
  • Contact the Underground
  • Start Here
    • about
    • Co-Parenting is Hard
Menu
  • Home
  • Hot Topics
    • My So Called Life
    • Midlife Musings
    • Divorced. Now what?
    • Living Single
    • The Mother Hood
    • Marital Hiss
    • Rotting Roots
    • Thoughts and Ponderings
    • Movie Musings
    • Be Practical
  • Contact the Underground
  • Start Here
    • about
    • Co-Parenting is Hard

Join the Underground

This is the part where I ask you to follow my blog 0_o. Enter your email and get updates when I post something new. Simple as that.

Spread the Word

  • Facebook
  • X
  • Instagram
  • Rotting Roots,  Divorced. Now what?

    You Had One Job – 5 Mistakes My Brother Made After My Divorce

    March 10, 2026 / No Comments

    I drove 1400 miles to my brother's apartment after the divorce because I thought he was safe. He was not a safe space. Thirteen years later, here's the full accounting.

    Read Me
  • My So Called Life

    Letting Go of Self-Sabotage

    October 14, 2014 / No Comments

    An experience in fourth grade that was both good and bad. Years later I am still learning to let go of self-sabotage.

    Read Me
  • My So Called Life,  Divorced. Now what?

    Alcohol, Cocktails and Other Adult Band-aids

    September 4, 2013 / No Comments

    On drinking as a coping mechanism to get through evenings with mr horrible, waiting for the divorce to be final.

    Read Me
  • My So Called Life,  Rotting Roots

    Words Fall On Deaf Ears…

    May 6, 2013 / No Comments

    I should have written the point paper. I was going to write a paper. I talked about doing this at length with my best friend over the phone. The intention was so I could say my piece to my brother without interruption or tangents. More specifically so I could keep a cool head about me. In the end I made a mistake and capitalized on an opportunity to have a dialogue with my brother about the current difficulties we have been experiencing since we decided be roommates. I should have saved my breath.

    Read Me
  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    Recompense of a Liar

    April 15, 2013 / No Comments

    He lied to me for 14 years and then expected the truth when it counted. I kept every divorce plan from him because payback is a bitch.

    Read Me
12

LisawithnoL

I blog about the random ass shit going on in my life. I pull no punches and use salty language. Read at your own risk.

Get the updates

Want to be the first to know when I publish? Enter your email and get updates when I post something new. Simple as that.

Would you like to know more?

Travel Back in Time

Trending

10 Reasons Why I Hate Riding in a Car With My Brother
Wearing Headphones In Public - Inconsiderate People Series
Strong Enough - Not Just Lyrics to Another Song
Song of the Day

Tags

adult student being married brother strikes again Christmas college coping mechanisms coping post divorce COVID19 depression divorce douchebaggery emotional abuse expectations Guatemala holidays issues keeping it real kennels of irritation La Llorona less than perfect life lessons manipulative behavior memories of bad marriage midlife musings motherhood mother issues motivation movie musings mr horrible my mother narcissist mother pandemic pet peeves pissed off rant post-divorce quarantine2020 rant reluctant step-parents anonymous secret single behavior single mom Texas the ex trust issues women working working through the drama

Trainwreck Gawkers

  • 10,372 curious onlookers
Follow on Bloglovin
lonelyblogs.com
© 2026 The Underground Mother Road
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms & Conditions
  • Disclaimer
  • Contact