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I’ll See Your Divorce and Raise You an Abuser
A book I read triggered some reflections on the divorce and how it all went down. And something about a game of poker...
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These Movies Are Killing Me Inside…
My taste in movies seems to be going through a transition, probably because of the divorce. I hope it’s not permanent cause it’s killing me, Smalls!
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Angry As I Wanna Be…
It is crazy to me to my mom is actually mad at me that I don’t feel sorry for my ex-husband. It’s crazy to me that she is actually criticizing the fact that I don’t have any sort of empathy or sympathy for somebody who has remorselessly killed two marriages and has shown little to no respect to me as a person and a woman.
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No Pity Party Here
Some people just want to see the world burn. Some just want to get the invite to your Pity Party. Well, there's no pity party here.
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Getting a clue
Anyone who has followed my blog will know that I have maintained a marriage with a man who for the most part was not involved actively as a father, and even less so as a husband. Devoted was not a word I used to describe our relationship. So, after thirteen years of marriage, fourteen years of being together, I had finally suffered enough insults and emotional/psychological, and to a degree physical, abuse that filing for divorce was inevitable. Question is, why did it take me so long and how can I keep from feeling stupid as hell for believing that someone like him would change, and that I would be…
