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    Palace of Delusion – The TikTok Trigger Incident

    March 4, 2026 / No Comments

    I made the mistake of laughing at something on TikTok and thinking that it would be a hoot to share it with my narcissist mother. Big mistake.

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    Another Year, Another Bad Birthday

    April 14, 2024 / No Comments

    Another year, another bad birthday. I should expect to be disappointed, yet somehow, I am still surprised. If your birthday was a catastrophe again this year, you're in good company.

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  • Midlife Musings,  Living Single

    Back in the Emotional Support Saddle Again

    November 25, 2023 / No Comments

    Once again, I am back in the saddle of playing emotional support person for my good friend X. Will he never learn?

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    Tears Solve Nothing – Lean Into the Anger

    June 19, 2020 / No Comments

    I admit, there is no love lost between me and my parents. I have stated unequivocally many times that if the man who fathered me passed away right now, I wouldn’t care. I also acknowledge my growing ambivalence about my mother’s eventual demise, not surprising as we are not super close and growing further apart as time goes by. 

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    Strong Enough – Not Just Lyrics to Another Song

    April 12, 2019 / No Comments

    I don’t spend a lot of time talking about myself or my personal life/background at work. Not that I am trying to be mysterious, but why would I?

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