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    Divorce: When a Marriage Is Over

    July 2, 2015 / No Comments

    He drunk-dialed me to talk about why things didn't work out between us. Then he tried to sex me up over the phone. While still with someone else. This is how I know a marriage is already over long before anyone says it outloud.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Living Single,  Rotting Roots

    Stress Eating My Emotional Abuse

    December 26, 2014 / No Comments

    Joy of joys. I love winter. I do not love winter weight—the inevitable extra cushioning I seem to accumulate around my middle as my body prepares for the never to happen hibernation. However, this season I was doing better…until my mother came into town.

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    Divorced. Now what?

    How to Cope Through Post-Divorce Interactions With the Ex: When We Pretend That They’re Dead…

    October 2, 2014 / No Comments

    My immediate reaction after the divorce was to change my Facebook status to “Widowed” because changing it to “divorced” just wasn’t final enough for me.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    #WhyIStayed

    September 10, 2014 / No Comments

    Everyone was shocked when they heard the news that I was divorcing mr horrible. I mean everyone. My friends, my family and acquaintances. No one suspected things were bad. Why? Because I wore a fake face 100% of the time, and even when I was “keeping things real” with by BFFs, there was still a spin to every story I told.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    Filled With Regret

    May 27, 2013 / No Comments

    Sometimes you get lucky and find music that speaks to the feelings and emotions that you experience. When I find a song that seems to just gets me, I can’t help but wonder how that artist just “got me” in a way that other people and those who are closest to the box I am fighting to get out of, just don’t seem to.

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