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  • Divorced. Now what?

    How to Cope Through Post-Divorce Interactions With the Ex: When We Pretend That They’re Dead…

    October 2, 2014 /No Comments

    mr horrible treats co-parenting like an extension of the marriage. I changed my Facebook status to Widowed because Divorced wasn't final enough. Pretending he's dead is a coping mechanism, not a lie

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    Divorced. Now what?,  Living Single

    Relationships Bite: Am I Doomed?

    September 29, 2014 /No Comments

    What if mr horrible was my soulmate? I almost ran off the road. Then I came to my senses — but the thought that replaced it wasn't any better.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    #WhyIStayed

    September 10, 2014 /No Comments

    Everyone was shocked when I divorced. No one knew because I wore a fake face 100% of the time. I stayed until the emotional abuse stopped being only my burden to bear. Then I left.

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  • My So Called Life,  Living Single

    For Once Let Me Lose Myself…

    March 13, 2014 /No Comments

    I walked out of my marriage but I'm still trapped inside it. I found a man exactly like my father. One day I will be free.

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  • My So Called Life,  Thoughts and Ponderings

    Smartphones and the Art of Listening

    September 15, 2013 /No Comments

    My sociology professor made us put our phones face-down to learn about listening. It reminded me of the last months of my marriage — texting my BFF from the sofa so I wouldn't say what I actually wanted to say.

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