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    Midlife Musings

    Deep Thoughts: What If I Made It Worse?

    June 3, 2026 /No Comments

    One time when we were living in Virginia, I bought a stranger a bus ticket. I don’t know what possessed me, and to this day I wonder if I actually helped that person? You’re supposed to wonder about the small things other people do for you that you can never pay back. But what if instead we wonder about the things we do for other people that we never hear about again?

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    You’re the Firestarter, Twisted Firestarter

    June 15, 2020 /No Comments

    Two kinds of people in your life: firefighters who kill your momentum, and firestarters who build it. My mother is a firefighter. I finally have a word for it.

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    The COVID Diaries Day 34 – The Epiphany

    April 28, 2020 /No Comments

    Day 34. I've been furloughed and I'm not in despair. Turns out when everyone is suffering together, there's no shame and no FOMO. I ran Maslow's pyramid. Turns out I'm doing okay.

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