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    My So Called Life

    The Neighborhood Council Files ~ Hidden Agendas

    June 27, 2026 /No Comments

    Our first general assembly. His last attempt to lie his way back in. He brought friends, canned speeches, and a hidden agenda. We brought receipts.

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    Rotting Roots

    The Body of Evidence

    June 24, 2026 /No Comments

    Neighbors in Guatemala remember my mother as "El cuerpo." A force of nature. A woman they speak about in awe. I inherited her face. I'm trying to figure out if I also inherited the thing that broke her.

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    Midlife Musings

    Photographic Memory

    June 1, 2026 /No Comments

    There is a black & white photograph of me that has persisted in my memory for decades. Let me tell you about it.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    #WhyIStayed

    September 10, 2014 /No Comments

    Everyone was shocked when I divorced. No one knew because I wore a fake face 100% of the time. I stayed until the emotional abuse stopped being only my burden to bear. Then I left.

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    My So Called Life,  Living Single

    Why You Trippin?

    May 23, 2014 /No Comments

    A friend I barely hear from is suddenly blowing up my phone about a holiday visit. I'm less than enthused about meeting the significant other. I'm hoping I can keep the fake face to a minimum.

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Writing about the random ass shit going on in my life since 2007. I pull no punches and use salty language. Read at your own risk.

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