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  • Midlife Musings,  Rotting Roots

    I Will Not Dumb Myself Down

    July 22, 2020 /No Comments

    On refusing to let anyone - my mother, the ex, anyone - treat me like I don't know my own mind. A zero-tolerance policy.

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    Alone versus Lonely

    December 26, 2019 /No Comments

    After years alone post-divorce, I had to ask myself: am I at peace with my solitude, or am I just afraid? Here's how I'm trying to tell the difference.

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    Merry Christmas to Me – the Gift of Peace

    December 25, 2019 /No Comments

    I didn't invite my mother and brother for Christmas this year. My mother tried everything to get invited. I woke up at noon and felt nothing but peace. Merry Christmas to me.

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    Midlife Musings,  Movie Musings

    Fever Dream – Ghosts from My Past and Watching Bandersnatch

    January 17, 2019 /No Comments

    I have a weird quirk where sometimes the more popular something is, the more I resist jumping on the bandwagon. Some latent habit left over from my rebellious youth? A remnant of anti-establishment feelings that never really disappeared, perhaps?

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    Doing jack shit this NYE

    December 30, 2018 /No Comments

    Laid off, broke, depressed, and hiding it from my mother. NYE plans: me, my kids, and my cats. Also the part where I finally started writing again.

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