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    Time Flies When You’re Not Having Fun

    February 28, 2026 / No Comments

    Twelve years ago I wrote about the Year of the Horse. Time flew and I wasn't having fun. I was hopeful in 2014. I'm exhausted in 2026. Here we go again.

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    Same Old Mistakes

    February 5, 2022 / No Comments

    I don't want to repeat the same old mistakes. In order to move forward, I have to take a long hard look at the past.

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    Decay of a Decade: Looking Back and Setting Better Goals

    December 31, 2019 / No Comments

    It is that time of year – the day before the New Year, time to take stock and plan ahead. In particular, it is time to evaluate the last 10 years and figure out how to better approach the years to come. I figure I can’t do much worse than I already have, what do I have to lose?

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    Divorced. Now what?,  My So Called Life

    My So Called Summer — Pt 2 — Crap Covered Walk Down Memory Lane

    December 5, 2014 / No Comments

    December is hurtling towards January at ludicrous speed.  Which brings me to finish my recap for the summer of 2014. Given the general shitty-ness of what happened in Virginia, my kids have nothing good to say, and what they could say is probably not worth sharing.

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    Living Single,  My So Called Life

    My So Called Summer – Part 1 – Riding the HOV Down Memory Lane

    September 18, 2014 / 2 Comments

    September is coming to a close, and it has been almost two months since I have had any meaningful communication with someone who used to be dear.

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