Decay of a Decade: Looking Back and Setting Better Goals
It is that time of year – the day before the New Year, time to take stock and plan ahead. In particular, it is time to evaluate the last 10 years and figure out how to better approach the years to come. I figure I can’t do much worse than I already have, what do I have to lose?
2020 – Hindsight and the New Year
2009: unhappy marriage, SAHM, church choir. 2019: divorced, dream job, five cats, paying my own bills. Feels like I am doing better. Room for improvement, but that's ok.
Strong Enough – Not Just Lyrics to Another Song
A coworker told me she wished she was as strong as me. I spent the rest of the day wondering what she was actually seeing, because it isn't what I see when I look in the mirror.
NYE Resolutions – Make It or Break It
Only 8% of people achieve their resolutions. The fix isn't fewer resolutions, it's better ones. Set specific goals, give them dates, break them into steps. Here's how.
Singles Country
Singles hits differently depending on where you are in life. When divorce was fresh I hated everyone in it. This time I just felt sorry for Janet.




