2020 – Hindsight and the New Year
2009: unhappy marriage, SAHM, church choir. 2019: divorced, dream job, five cats, paying my own bills. Feels like I am doing better. Room for improvement, but that's ok.
Strong Enough – Not Just Lyrics to Another Song
A coworker told me she wished she was as strong as me. I spent the rest of the day wondering what she was actually seeing, because it isn't what I see when I look in the mirror.
NYE Resolutions – Make It or Break It
Only 8% of people achieve their resolutions. The fix isn't fewer resolutions, it's better ones. Set specific goals, give them dates, break them into steps. Here's how.
Singles Country
Singles hits differently depending on where you are in life. When divorce was fresh I hated everyone in it. This time I just felt sorry for Janet.
Tribe Called Quest – This Song is My Jam
RIP Phife Dawg. Electric Relaxation was on my Discman on the NYC subway. A Tribe Called Quest will always be on the soundtrack of my life.
