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    Time Flies When You’re Not Having Fun

    February 28, 2026 / No Comments

    Twelve years ago I wrote about the Year of the Horse. Time flew and I wasn't having fun. I was hopeful in 2014. I'm exhausted in 2026. Here we go again.

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    Midlife Crisis Management – Steering Back Onto the Road

    February 10, 2026 / No Comments

    Somehow 20 months later, I am managing another midlife crisis, and have moved to another country. What happened?

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    Say Ma’am One More Time

    July 1, 2020 / No Comments

    I have been yes ma’am’d more in the last week than I ever have been in my life. Have I passed the threshold from indiscernible years into tellable old age? God forbid…

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    Why I’m Missing Out – Stuck on the Edge of the Dating Pool

    April 8, 2019 / No Comments

    Six years ago, in a state fourteen hundred miles away, I got divorced. I don’t know what I expected to feel many years later, but this isn’t it. I had no specific hopes that I would be all extra assertive and shit, comfortable flexing my singlehood and meeting men.

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