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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    Recompense of a Liar

    April 15, 2013 /No Comments

    He lied to me for 14 years and then expected the truth when it counted. I kept every divorce plan from him because payback is a bitch.

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  • Divorced. Now what?

    Low Blow

    April 11, 2013 /No Comments

    He said my contributions were negligible. We were both active duty Navy and I'd made rank faster. On marital misogyny and the satisfaction of leaving anyway.

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    Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss,  Rotting Roots

    Krakatoa on the Inside…An Ode to the Death of My Marriage

    March 31, 2013 /No Comments

    I wore a fake face for five months while he openly had an affair at work, just to secure a custody settlement in my favor. I won a race no one knew I was running. I just wish I'd done this eight years ago.

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  • Marital Hiss

    Married to a son of a bitch

    December 12, 2012 /No Comments

    He came home and complained his dinner was too hot. That unhappiness doesn't come from me. Trying to meet his expectations turned me into someone I hated. I give up.

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    Drinking the Haterade

    March 12, 2012 /1 Comment

    On gentle parenting manifestos, blended family reality, and why lofty parenting ideals don't survive contact with an actual preteen.

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