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  • Labors Lost - laments on the thankless nature of raising someone elses child
    Divorced. Now what?,  The Mother Hood

    Labors Lost: Laments on the Thankless Nature of Raising Someone Else’s Child

    September 19, 2013 / No Comments

    Reflecting on the thankless nature of raising someone else's child. Being a step-parent isn't easy. Who knew?

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    Working My Nerves

    September 14, 2013 / No Comments

    Even after the divorce the ex continues to pin the blame for random things on me. He is working my every last nerve.

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    Father's Day used to mean something. But when the father of your children is a douchebag, what is there to celebrate? Not all men make good fathers.

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    Marital Hiss,  My So Called Life

    Prom Nightmare

    April 20, 2012 / No Comments

    Pop quiz hot-shot: Your 17-year-old tells you on Monday night he needs money for prom tickets cause he asked a girl to go and she said yes. Tuesday night you find out the prom is in 3 days and Wednesday is the last day to buy tickets and there is no money in the budget for this last-minute expense… What do you do? What do you do??!! Well, if the 17-year-old in question is my hapless step-son, notorious for misinformation and bad decisions, I say NO, along with an accompanying hour lecture on the consequence of his piss-poor planning, done mostly for the husband’s benefit, as he was looking like…

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    Drinking the Haterade

    March 12, 2012 / 1 Comment

    I took a swig of the haterade while I was reading some posts on my facebook page this morning (see, this is why I shouldn’t even get on facebook). I had a fb friend post a link to a blog about mothering. Then I read, on that blog, her manifesto on parenting, and though I agree with her notions in general, she lost me at the part about gentle discipline. I can only assume, due to her overall tone, that she must be the parent of small children and is NOT in a blended family.

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I blog about the random ass shit going on in my life. I'm a single mom, a Navy veteran, avid reader, and coping with life post-divorce. I have two sons and five cats, so clearly, I'm a catch. I pull no punches and use salty language. Read at your own risk.

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