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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Living Single

    Just Saying No to Post-Divorce Dating

    October 2, 2014 /No Comments

    Everyone assumes you'll start dating after divorce. I'd rather take a nap. On opting out of post-divorce dating and why that's a completely valid choice.

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    Seeing Double

    September 24, 2014 /No Comments

    My coworker got nominated for employee of the month after missing three weeks — possibly for being in jail. I called out for a sick child and got talked about. Same old double standard.

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    My So Called Life

    My So Called Summer – Part 1 – Riding the HOV Down Memory Lane

    September 18, 2014 /2 Comments

    Drove back to Virginia to visit my BFF after a year apart. She'd changed after her stroke. I'd changed after the divorce. Absence did not make the heart grow fonder.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    #WhyIStayed

    September 10, 2014 /No Comments

    Everyone was shocked when I divorced. No one knew because I wore a fake face 100% of the time. I stayed until the emotional abuse stopped being only my burden to bear. Then I left.

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    Tales of an Outsider

    September 2, 2014 /No Comments

    Nobody wants to hang out with the person going through a divorce. Feeling like an outsider at work, and the exhausting math of having nothing relatable to share.

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