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  • Divorced. Now what?,  The Mother Hood

    Pandemic Graduation – Surprise, the Ex is Still an Asshole

    May 31, 2020 / No Comments

    My youngest son has graduated high school. Thanks to COVID-19 the graduation ceremony was first cancelled, then postponed, then it evolved into this weird drive-thru event at a race track. 

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Midlife Musings

    Picking Up the Pieces of Things Lost in the Divorce: Battlestar Galactica

    April 30, 2020 / No Comments

    One of the fallouts of the divorce was losing the things that I shared with the ex. Things that he appropriated and then tried to own them, and share them with his mistress. It took years for me to regain these things, to be able to partake in these things without getting overwhelmed with negative triggers. One of these days I will spend some time retracing the steps of his manipulation. 

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    Quarantine This Birthday

    April 16, 2020 / No Comments

    Quarantine killed the birthday plans, which was fine by me. Turning 40-something is weird enough without a pandemic forcing you to sit with it.

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    Birthday Fail • A Historical Review of Why I Hate Birthdays

    April 30, 2019 / No Comments

    My birthday peaked at age six. Everything since has been a documented disaster. 10 reasons I stopped caring about my birthday entirely.

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    Reality Dreaming: Sparking the Fires of Motivation Under My Ass

    March 9, 2019 / No Comments

    Some people remember their dreams. Some I remember, some I forget. It depends. If the dream leaves me shaken when I wake up, then I am going to try to remember it. Probably why I keep paper and pen near my bed.

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