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  • Divorced. Now what?

    I Dub Thee Mr Horrible

    April 24, 2013 / No Comments

    I am really tired of referring to my was-husband as “the ex”. He isn’t my anything anymore. I would like to permanently disown him if that were at all possible. Since I can’t do that (damn the mixing of genetic material!) the next best thing is to give him a whole new title.

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    I’ll See Your Divorce and Raise You an Abuser

    April 22, 2013 / No Comments

    A book I read triggered some reflections on the divorce and how it all went down. And something about a game of poker...

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  • Divorced. Now what?

    A Lame Excuse By Any Other Name, Is Still Lame…

    April 19, 2013 / No Comments

    I received an email in my Inbox, specifically to a folder where I am having the emails from my ex redirected to, and it was from several days ago. Having his emails re-routed out of my Inbox is therapeutic, since thinking about him still pisses me off, I see no point in allowing him to be the thing that sends me spinning off into the anger vortex, this way I can see his emails when I’m good and ready–not have them sneak attack me at random times of the day. So back to the email…

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    Recompense of a Liar

    April 15, 2013 / No Comments

    Why do liars think that they are entitled to the truth? Their deceptive actions show me they can’t handle the truth! So what’s a girl to do when she has to make moves that put her in the awkward position of having to trust the bastard that got you in the mess you’re in? Why, treat him like he likes to be treated: With the best Oscar winning portrayal of “The Truthful Wife”. He deserves no better, at least I think so.

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    Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire…

    April 12, 2013 / 2 Comments

    Mistake #2: Believing that the man you married was who you thought he was. Not understanding that the underlying cause for all your frustration was that who he said he was and how he actually was could not be logically reconciled and there was a constant conflict always under the surface, coasting somewhere under the radar.

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I blog about the random ass shit going on in my life. I'm a single mom, a Navy veteran, avid reader, and coping with life post-divorce. I have two sons and five cats, so clearly, I'm a catch. I pull no punches and use salty language. Read at your own risk.

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