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    Palace of Delusion – The TikTok Trigger Incident

    March 4, 2026 / No Comments

    I made the mistake of laughing at something on TikTok and thinking that it would be a hoot to share it with my narcissist mother. Big mistake.

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  • Love is Dead - Casualty of the Divorce
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    Love is Dead – Casualty of the Divorce

    September 6, 2020 / No Comments

    I wanted the opposite of what my mother had. Instead I ended up in somewhat the same place — and I'm not trying again.

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    Rotting Roots

    This is for my absent father

    February 21, 2016 / No Comments

    My absent father found me on LinkedIn after 13 years of silence. He wasn't there when I was struggling. He doesn't get to show up now that I'm not.

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    Generational Differences

    February 14, 2016 / No Comments

    My mother and my son have a very love-hate relationship. My mother loves her grandson, my son cannot stand his grandmother. There is a lot of confusion on both sides as to why can’t the other understand the love/hate. I am stuck in the middle attempting to mediate between the two.

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    My So Called Summer – Part 1 – Riding the HOV Down Memory Lane

    September 18, 2014 / 2 Comments

    Drove back to Virginia to visit my BFF after a year apart. She'd changed after her stroke. I'd changed after the divorce. Absence did not make the heart grow fonder.

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