• Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire…

    Mistake #2: Believing that the man you married was who you thought he was. Not understanding that the underlying cause for all your frustration was that who he said he was and how he actually was could not be logically reconciled and there was a constant conflict always under the surface, coasting somewhere under the radar.

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    Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    Getting a clue

    Anyone who has followed my blog will know that I have maintained a marriage with a man who for the most part was not involved actively as a father, and even less so as a husband. Devoted was not a word I used to describe our relationship. So, after thirteen years of marriage, fourteen years of being together, I had finally suffered enough insults and emotional/psychological, and to a degree physical, abuse that filing for divorce was inevitable. Question is, why did it take me so long and how can I keep from feeling stupid as hell for believing that someone like him would change, and that I would be…