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  • My So Called Life,  Divorced. Now what?

    Bracing For Impact

    September 24, 2013 /No Comments

    I must be suffering from the effects of residual stress because my head has been pounding all day. I can only assume that it is my body reacting to what I have yet to wrap my mind around completely: that in a matter of hours, my calm will be disrupted by the arrival of mr horrible. I have been too busy to really stop and take stock.

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    Already Brushing Off the Dust

    September 20, 2013 /No Comments

    There are entire music playlists I can't listen to anymore. Then this song came on the radio and made me want to punch someone in the face. That made me happy.

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  • My So Called Life,  Thoughts and Ponderings

    Smartphones and the Art of Listening

    September 15, 2013 /No Comments

    My sociology professor made us put our phones face-down to learn about listening. It reminded me of the last months of my marriage — texting my BFF from the sofa so I wouldn't say what I actually wanted to say.

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    My So Called Life,  Divorced. Now what?

    Who’s going to comfort me?

    September 3, 2013 /No Comments

    Faced with a difficult decision, I lament not having someone else to lean on. Who will comfort me when I have to keep it together?

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    Filled With Regret

    May 27, 2013 /No Comments

    Fiona Apple wrote a song that sounded like she'd been in my marriage. Regret is on repeat. He opposed me just to oppose me. He didn't see me. That's regret.

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