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  • My So Called Life,  Thoughts and Ponderings

    Smartphones and the Art of Listening

    September 15, 2013 /No Comments

    My sociology professor made us put our phones face-down to learn about listening. It reminded me of the last months of my marriage — texting my BFF from the sofa so I wouldn't say what I actually wanted to say.

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    Working My Nerves

    September 14, 2013 /No Comments

    Even after the divorce the ex continues to pin the blame for random things on me. He is working my every last nerve.

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    Have Passport Will Travel

    September 6, 2013 /No Comments

    The marriage cost me years of travel. Now I'm divorced, I have a passport, and for the first time in a long time I feel like I have permission to hope and dream.

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    My So Called Life,  Divorced. Now what?

    Who’s going to comfort me?

    September 3, 2013 /No Comments

    Faced with a difficult decision, I lament not having someone else to lean on. Who will comfort me when I have to keep it together?

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    Filled With Regret

    May 27, 2013 /No Comments

    Fiona Apple wrote a song that sounded like she'd been in my marriage. Regret is on repeat. He opposed me just to oppose me. He didn't see me. That's regret.

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