Divorced. Now what?
Got divorced. What happens now?
The full, unvarnished account of what happens after you finally leave a bad marriage: the legal chaos, the emotional wreckage, the years of co-parenting with someone you'd rather never speak to again, and the slow, nonlinear process of putting yourself back together.Jewel of Denial
Jewel of Denial - avoiding relationships isn't about being in denial, it is facing the truth about myself.
Love is Dead – Casualty of the Divorce
I wanted the opposite of what my mother had. Instead I ended up in somewhat the same place — and I'm not trying again.
Wishing You an Unhappy Birthday
Is it progress that I can wish the ex salutations on his birthday?
Pandemic Graduation – Surprise, the Ex is Still an Asshole
My youngest son has graduated high school. Thanks to COVID-19 the graduation ceremony was first cancelled, then postponed, then it evolved into this weird drive-thru event at a race track.
Life After Divorce, 2555 Days Later
Seven years divorced, and I haven't dated once — not because I couldn't, but because I chose not to. Here's what life after divorce actually looks like.




