My So Called Life
All the random ass shit that happens. Read at your own risk.
Day-to-day dispatches from a life that is technically ordinary and somehow never boring. Work problems, relationship observations, aging indignities, boundary violations, and the occasional moment of genuine clarity that makes all the rest of it worth it. The catch-all category for everything that doesn't fit neatly anywhere else — which, honestly, describes most of real life.More Adventures in Social Distancing
As the pandemic progresses, my state is reopening businesses in stages. I don’t know how they decide what can reopen when, or more importantly, why? But I have tamped down my panic and gone out while still exhibiting caution. It has been an experience in otherworldly interaction.
In the Navy – Tales of Misogyny
A Chief asked me to step down from a committee I'd chaired for two years so his buddy could get the eval bullet. I said no.
Ready or Not – Don’t Come to a Battle of Wits Unarmed
She tried to make up new rules mid-game to stop me from winning. It's a board game, but it's also never really about the board game
Haters Gonna Hate
When women at work are jealous of my success, haters gonna hate. I've ridden this carnival ride of envy before. Come at me bitches.
Deja Vu Drama – Double Down on Your Disappointment
I was made project manager for the software upgrade I taught myself. My work friend wasn't chosen for the team. She's making it my problem. It isn't.
