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    Fever Dream – Ghosts from My Past and Watching Bandersnatch

    January 17, 2019 / No Comments

    I have a weird quirk where sometimes the more popular something is, the more I resist jumping on the bandwagon. Some latent habit left over from my rebellious youth ? A remnant of anti-establishment feelings that never really disappeared, perhaps?

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    He who shall not be named also known as: the son who died

    January 12, 2019 / No Comments

    I won’t mention him by name. I don’t want to sully his memory by talking more about the way in which he passed. There was already enough internet drama at the time, and my grief was public enough. But I feel it is important to mention this because I will refer to him as the son who died when I write about him. He was not my biological son, but he was my son nonetheless.

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  • conformity is often more dangerous than war. war destroys the body but conformity destroys the imaginative mind. Debasish Mridha
    Midlife Musings

    Conformity Destroys – the YOYO effect

    January 11, 2019 / No Comments

    Sometimes I get the sinking feeling that I have lost my creativity and have fallen into the rut of the status quo. I fear that adulting has cost me the spontaneity of youth, and all I have to look forward to is getting old.

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  • Movie Musings

    Hard Pass | 2 movie types that trigger no-no feelings

    January 9, 2019 / No Comments

    There are some movies that one can never watch again. There are certain movies that have some scenes or situations that are hard triggers for bad times. It doesn’t even have to be something that other people would consider bad.

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    Lamentations on Doctor Who

    January 7, 2019 / No Comments

    I am not the biggest nerd-girl in the world, but I'm no slouch. I love Doctor Who and I have spread the infectious joy that is the BBC show to my children.

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