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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire…

    April 12, 2013 / 2 Comments

    Mistake #2: Believing that the man you married was who you thought he was. Not understanding that the underlying cause for all your frustration was that who he said he was and how he actually was could not be logically reconciled and there was a constant conflict always under the surface, coasting somewhere under the radar.

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  • Thoughts and Ponderings

    Low Blow…

    April 11, 2013 / No Comments

    Being told my contributions were negligible was a low blow. Anyone ever recall being told to their face that their efforts in a project were forgettable? Unnecessary? Pointless? A wasted effort? Try being told that by your husband and father of your children. If nothing made me want out of that marriage before, that statement certainly did.

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    Divorced. Now what?,  Rotting Roots

    Angry As I Wanna Be…

    April 11, 2013 / No Comments

    It is crazy to me to my mom is actually mad at me that I don’t feel sorry for my ex-husband. It’s crazy to me that she is actually criticizing the fact that I don’t have any sort of empathy or sympathy for somebody who has remorselessly killed two marriages and has shown little to no respect to me as a person and a woman.

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  • Rotting Roots

    Stick a Sock In It…

    April 10, 2013 / 1 Comment

    I am thankful for the luxury of being able to do laundry from within my home. But I am reminded of another day when I was doing laundry.

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    Divorced. Now what?,  Living Single

    No Pity Party Here

    April 10, 2013 / No Comments

    Some people just want to see the world burn. Some just want to get the invite to your Pity Party. Well, there's no pity party here.

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