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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    Grown Men Masquerading as Children

    September 7, 2013 /No Comments

    Reflections about having a man pretending to be incompetent to get out of parenting his children and the strain it created in the marriage.

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    Alcohol, Cocktails and Other Adult Band-aids

    September 4, 2013 /No Comments

    On drinking as a coping mechanism to get through evenings with mr horrible, waiting for the divorce to be final.

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    Hey, mr horrible, You Suck.

    August 21, 2013 /No Comments

    He called the kids and spent the entire call criticizing how they spent their weekend. They didn't have a problem with it until he opened his mouth. Hey mr horrible, you suck.

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    Fuck Father’s Day

    June 14, 2013 /No Comments

    Father's Day used to mean something. But when the father of your children is a douchebag, what is there to celebrate? Not all men make good fathers.

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  • Krakatoa On the Inside - An Ode to the Death of My Marriage_UGMR
    Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss,  Rotting Roots

    Krakatoa on the Inside…An Ode to the Death of My Marriage

    March 31, 2013 /No Comments

    I wore a fake face for five months while he openly had an affair at work, just to secure a custody settlement in my favor. I won a race no one knew I was running. I just wish I'd done this eight years ago.

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