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  • Divorced. Now what?

    He Expected a Fight and Other Epiphanies

    September 30, 2013 / 1 Comment

    I came to the realization this weekend that I have outgrown the ex. I find the ex tedious, and this epiphany was as frightening as it was enlightening.

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    Divorced. Now what?

    Failure Is Not an Option…

    September 10, 2013 / No Comments

    So I have a goal for the end of this month: to feel (and noticeably look) more fit. I would like to be able to say that I am only motivated by personal improvement… but I’m not that noble! Mr Horrible is arriving for a visit, and Lord knows I don’t want to be found worse off than when I left! I gained 20 lbs since I moved here to Texas. I know I sank into an unhealthy depression, after the big move, the trauma from the move, and emotions (mine and the children’s) crashed on me all at once. It doesn’t make me feel better to see the evidence…

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  My So Called Life

    Alcohol, Cocktails and Other Adult Band-aids

    September 4, 2013 / No Comments

    There was a time in recent history when I was drinking, but it wasn't socially and I wasn't happy. When was that and why?

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    Divorced. Now what?,  Rotting Roots

    Angry As I Wanna Be…

    April 11, 2013 / No Comments

    It is crazy to me to my mom is actually mad at me that I don’t feel sorry for my ex-husband. It’s crazy to me that she is actually criticizing the fact that I don’t have any sort of empathy or sympathy for somebody who has remorselessly killed two marriages and has shown little to no respect to me as a person and a woman.

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    Woman on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown

    January 26, 2008 / No Comments

    Impending doom is coming - in the form of the husband returning from deployment. Why the dread?

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