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  • Divorced. Now what?

    I Dub Thee Mr Horrible

    April 24, 2013 /No Comments

    I am really tired of referring to my was-husband as “the ex”. He isn’t my anything anymore. I would like to permanently disown him if that were at all possible. Since I can’t do that (damn the mixing of genetic material!), the next best thing is to give him a whole new title.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  The Mother Hood

    I’ll See Your Divorce and Raise You an Abuser

    April 22, 2013 /No Comments

    Two months out of an abusive marriage, living in my brother's spare room, and I can't find a single divorce book that covers what this actually looks like.

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    Movie Musings,  Divorced. Now what?

    These Movies Are Killing Me Inside

    April 12, 2013 /No Comments

    I watched Crazy, Stupid, Love post-divorce and spent two hours being pissed off. Separation is not a free pass. The movie disagreed. So did my ex.

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  • angry as I wanna be
    Divorced. Now what?,  Rotting Roots

    Angry As I Wanna Be

    April 11, 2013 /No Comments

    My mother told me I had no right to be angry at the ex. She's wrong. On why anger after divorce is valid, necessary, and nobody else's to manage.

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  • no pity party
    Divorced. Now what?,  Living Single

    No Pity Party Here

    April 10, 2013 /No Comments

    Some people just want to see the world burn. Some just want to get the invite to your Pity Party. Well, there's no pity party here.

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Writing about the random ass shit going on in my life since 2007. I pull no punches and use salty language. Read at your own risk.

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