Divorced – My Secret Identity
The funny thing about being divorced is that most people don’t ever realize that I was ever married. Those that figure out I was are even more surprised it was such a bitter and contentious divorce. Thing is, my past is not my identity. I don’t wear my pain nor do I use it as an excuse to behave like a crochety beeyotch.
Grab Your Emotional Baggage – It’s Time for a Guilt Trip!
What do you do when you are blindsided by a question that reminds you that there was a better version of you that you left behind in the past? You pack your emotional baggage and embark on a guilt trip. Let's go!
My Flippin’ Do List
List-making as a survival skill, single motherhood, and finally getting credit for the work you were always doing alone.
Miss Me, Miss Me Good
It is 2014, the dawn of a new year and everything is going great until I get a text out of the blue that disrupts my calm… it’s a text message from mr horrible. What does he have to say to me? Something stupid about how he misses me and he wonders if I miss him. Dude, no.
Smartphones and the Art of Listening
My sociology professor made us put our phones face-down to learn about listening. It reminded me of the last months of my marriage — texting my BFF from the sofa so I wouldn't say what I actually wanted to say.
