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  • Midlife Musings,  Rotting Roots

    Verbal Hostage Situation

    May 20, 2026 /No Comments

    A toxic brother resurfaces with no apology, a verdict on my life, and an hour-long monologue. Verbal hostage situations, no negotiation possible.

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  • My So Called Life

    So Much to Say – Don’t Talk About It

    March 26, 2026 /No Comments

    I've been tired all week. Unusually so. I couldn't figure out why — until a phone call from La Llorona, a conversation with my BFF, and a Dave Matthews song I couldn't get out of my head told me everything I needed to know.

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  • Rotting Roots,  Divorced. Now what?

    You Had One Job – 5 Mistakes My Brother Made After My Divorce

    March 10, 2026 /No Comments

    I drove 1400 miles to my brother's apartment after the divorce because I thought he was safe. He was not a safe space. Thirteen years later, here's the full accounting.

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  • Rotting Roots

    My Narcissist Mother Vs Army Of Me

    June 5, 2023 /No Comments

    My Narcissist Mother strikes again. Once more I rally the Army of Me.

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  • Midlife Musings,  Rotting Roots

    I Will Not Dumb Myself Down

    July 22, 2020 /No Comments

    On refusing to let anyone - my mother, the ex, anyone - treat me like I don't know my own mind. A zero-tolerance policy.

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Writing about the random ass shit going on in my life since 2007. I pull no punches and use salty language. Read at your own risk.

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