Letting Go of Self-Sabotage
An experience in fourth grade that was both good and bad. Years later I am still learning to let go of self-sabotage.
Ditch the Bitch – Double Standards in Adulting
My partner ditched me for the bar. Fine. What actually pissed me off was watching men judge a woman by a ruler they clearly don't use on themselves. Except for last night.
Step-Mothers Get No Respect: Reflections on the Major Suck that is Step-Parenting
I raised him from age 10 to 18. He went to Navy boot camp. He called twice — once to get his dad's number. I expected a letter. Nothing came. Stepmothers get no respect.
If Women Behaved Like Men
What if women catcalled men? In another universe we'd be the feral, unhinged beasts men cross the street to avoid. Apparently I think about this a lot.
A Study Put Numbers to Doctor Who’s Sexism
A study put numbers to what I always felt about Doctor Who's gender problem with its companions. My grievances with Amy Pond and Clara, and why Ten is my Doctor.




