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    My So Called Life,  Rotting Roots

    Premonition – The Movie I Forgot to Remember

    June 2, 2026 /No Comments

    Watching movies with my mother is annoying. Watching a movie with her where there is a husband and kids in the plot is even more so. When she was still here, I made the mistake of watching the movie Premonition with her. I, unfortunately, did not remember enough of the plot from the time I had seen before to realize it was a landmine of issues. That is how I found myself in that situation. Oh, also, spoilers ahead if you haven’t watched the movie, so whatever.

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    Photographic Memory

    June 1, 2026 /No Comments

    There is a black & white photograph of me that has persisted in my memory for decades. Let me tell you about it.

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    Wheel of Misfortune: I’d Like to Solve the Puzzle

    May 19, 2026 /No Comments

    Spent a month in a slump with no obvious cause. Turns out my tone-deaf best friend was the puzzle. A reckoning with friendship asymmetry in midlife.

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    Depleted Momentum • The Art of Weaponized Truth

    March 15, 2026 /No Comments

    I told my mother I came to Guatemala to write. That was my first mistake. She stayed two months, and my writing stalled.

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    Rewriting the Food Script

    March 13, 2026 /No Comments

    On emotional eating, food noise, and what happens when your coping mechanism isn't available anymore. A midlife personal essay from Guatemala.

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