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    Divorced. Now what?,  The Mother Hood

    Step-Mothers Get No Respect: Reflections on the Major Suck that is Step-Parenting

    October 1, 2014 /No Comments

    Raised him from ten to eighteen. Two calls from boot camp, one favor asked, zero letters. What step-parenting actually buys you when the ex controls the story.

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    Divorced. Now what?,  Living Single

    Relationships Bite: Am I Doomed?

    September 29, 2014 /No Comments

    What if mr horrible was my soulmate? I almost ran off the road. Then I came to my senses — but the thought that replaced it wasn't any better.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    #WhyIStayed

    September 10, 2014 /No Comments

    Everyone was shocked when I divorced. No one knew because I wore a fake face 100% of the time. I stayed until the emotional abuse stopped being only my burden to bear. Then I left.

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    Smartphones and the Art of Listening

    September 15, 2013 /No Comments

    My sociology professor made us put our phones face-down to learn about listening. It reminded me of the last months of my marriage — texting my BFF from the sofa so I wouldn't say what I actually wanted to say.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    Grown Men Masquerading as Children

    September 7, 2013 /No Comments

    Reflections about having a man pretending to be incompetent to get out of parenting his children and the strain it created in the marriage.

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Writing about the random ass shit going on in my life since 2007. I pull no punches and use salty language. Read at your own risk.

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