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You Had One Job – 5 Mistakes My Brother Made After My Divorce
I drove 1400 miles to my brother's apartment after the divorce because I thought he was safe. He was not a safe space. Thirteen years later, here's the full accounting.
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New Year, Same Old Bullshit – Tales of a Bad Manager
My boss is a textbook bad manager — demotivating, micromanaging, biased — and it feels uncomfortably familiar. On toxic masculinity at work and recognizing the pattern when you've lived it before.
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Weird Wednesday – Awkward Public Interactions of the Cis-Het Male Variety
Some cis-het males feel the need to overshare. Especially those who feel especially proud at having oppressed the women in their lives and see happy women in the wild.
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In the Navy – Tales of Misogyny
A guy at work asked me today why this one other coworker was shadowing me today. It was not unusual that I was training someone. What was unusual was the who.
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Excuse Me, Mansplainer
Two incidents, two mansplainers. Because there always be some man who thinks women need some mansplaining.
