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  • My So Called Life,  Midlife Musings

    Decay of a Decade: Looking Back and Setting Better Goals

    December 31, 2019 /No Comments

    It is that time of year – the day before the New Year, time to take stock and plan ahead. In particular, it is time to evaluate the last 10 years and figure out how to better approach the years to come. I figure I can’t do much worse than I already have, what do I have to lose?

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  • Midlife Musings

    Doing jack shit this NYE

    December 30, 2018 /No Comments

    Laid off, broke, depressed, and hiding it from my mother. NYE plans: me, my kids, and my cats. Also the part where I finally started writing again.

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    My So Called Life,  Divorced. Now what?

    My So Called Summer – Part 1 – Riding the HOV Down Memory Lane

    September 18, 2014 /2 Comments

    Drove back to Virginia to visit my BFF after a year apart. She'd changed after her stroke. I'd changed after the divorce. Absence did not make the heart grow fonder.

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    Divorced. Now what?,  The Mother Hood

    Grab Your Emotional Baggage – It’s Time for a Guilt Trip!

    April 17, 2014 /No Comments

    My son asked why I don't cook at home anymore. I had three hypotheses: post-divorce rebellion, depression, or all of the above. Pack your emotional baggage it's time for a guilt trip. Let's go!

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    2012: A Look Ahead

    January 1, 2012 /No Comments

    2011 was a mess by any measure. On why setting big expectations for a new year is just performance anxiety in disguise — and why I'm not making that mistake

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