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  • Divorced. Now what?,  The Mother Hood

    Working My Nerves

    September 14, 2013 /No Comments

    Even after the divorce the ex continues to pin the blame for random things on me. He is working my every last nerve.

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    Divorced. Now what?

    Failure Is Not an Option

    September 10, 2013 /No Comments

    mr horrible was coming to visit and I wanted to look like I was thriving. Not my noblest motivation, but I'm not going to lie about it. I hit the gym anyway.

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    Navigating Uncharted Waters

    September 8, 2013 /No Comments

    Stuff from NJ inbound means nothing ties me to that black hole anymore. Every step forward in the new apartment is uncharted waters.

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    Grown Men Masquerading as Children

    September 7, 2013 /No Comments

    Reflections about having a man pretending to be incompetent to get out of parenting his children and the strain it created in the marriage.

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    Have Passport Will Travel

    September 6, 2013 /No Comments

    The marriage cost me years of travel. Now I'm divorced, I have a passport, and for the first time in a long time I feel like I have permission to hope and dream.

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