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  • Marital Hiss

    Married to a son of a bitch

    December 12, 2012 /No Comments

    He came home and complained his dinner was too hot. That unhappiness doesn't come from me. Trying to meet his expectations turned me into someone I hated. I give up.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    A Cautionary Tale

    September 13, 2012 /No Comments

    The divorce papers had just been served when he asked me to stay. I believed him. I stayed. I hope I am not making a colossal mistake — September 2012.

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  • My So Called Life,  Thoughts and Ponderings

    Ghosts of New Years Past

    January 1, 2012 /No Comments

    I’ve brought in the New Year in Times Square, at a Night Out event in my hometown, at a house party, at home throwing my own party, and in a parking lot on the Navy base in Jacksonville because my husband had duty but I could sneak him away for a moment to wish him a Happy New Year and then drive back home alone.

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  • Its not easy being mean
    My So Called Life,  The Mother Hood

    It’s not easy being mean

    December 29, 2011 /1 Comment

    Every fight in our marriage is about one kid. His. While he was at his mother's for Christmas we had not one argument. Now he's coming home. Ugh — it's not easy being mean.

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    My So Called Life,  Marital Hiss

    Pool of Trouble

    February 26, 2010 /No Comments

    He deployed and left me with a pool I'd never maintained. It turned green. I sent him photos of everything except the backyard which contained the pool of trouble.

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